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"Honesty is the Best Policy With Women" Below
Honesty is the Best Policy With Women
By Derek Vitalio
If you want
your woman to be sexually wild and responsive to you in bed, it's necessary to
be radically honest with your woman, with your feelings, with your present
activities, and with your future plans.
If your dream is to have a
threesome with her, you need to tell her. If you want her to learn to deep
throat you, you need to tell her.
But more than that, being honest about
any negative feelings you have serves a valuable purpose in a
relationship. Your expression of negative feelings can alert your woman to
any adjustments that need to be made. And her being honest with you allows
you to make the appropriate adjustments too.
In other words, a man and
woman who are honest with each other can identify problems in the relationship
very quickly and can dispose of them very quickly.
But if you're
dishonest with your woman, problems will emerge, and fast.
For instance,
if you want to have a sexual experience with another woman, and you keep it
bottled up inside, eventually you may be driven to sneaking around, getting
caught, causing emotional pain, and losing all trust in the relationship.
But if you communicate your desires (and one of the best ways is to use
my communication scripts in my Blissnosis program), you'll be able to work out a
solution with your woman... perhaps hooking up a threesome together.
Or
imagine your woman loves to cook for you as an expression of her love.
Unfortunately, she's an awful cook - the burgers are soggy, the buns are stale,
and the broccoli is tough like hard tack. Not to mention you're on a diet
and can't eat hamburgers.
But because you appreciate her effort to
cook, you don't say anything and just eat and suffer in silence. Soon
however, you come to dread visiting her and eating her terrible food, and you
start to make up reasons not to visit her. The relationship
suffers.
The relationship suffers because the dishonesty causes the other
person to be ignorant, when they could be doing something to remedy the
situation.
Or suppose your woman feels like she's getting
overweight. You're concerned as well, but you decide not to say or do
anything because you don't want her to feel uncomfortable. You might even
think that a few extra pounds isn't such a big deal really. So she makes
no effort to lose the weight, and then she gains a few more. Pretty soon,
you become increasingly displeased with her unattractive figure, but you
continue to bite your tongue.
And pretty soon your dishonesty and keeping
your feelings bottled up inside becomes a habit. And without accurate
information, the unhappy situation goes on and on.
And slowly but surely
you grow apart from your woman because your needs were not being met, all
because you weren't honest with her about what your needs were.
Sometimes
we use dishonesty to protect our woman from the pain of criticism. But you
do her no favors when you tell her "protective" lies to make her feel more
secure and loved. Eventually exactly the opposite happens.
But for
most guys they just need to stop acting like a wuss and get a backbone,
especially when it comes to their sexual needs and fantasies being
fulfilled.
You need to stop worrying about losing the relationship and go
after what you want. In the long run, your relationship will be much
healthier for it and your woman and you will be much happier when your needs are
met.
Of course, you don't want to confuse honesty with making demands,
disrespect, or anger. If you want her to dress sexy for you, don't pout
like a child, beg like a wuss, or demand like a bully to communicate your
needs.
And angry outbursts won't get your woman to listen and
adapt to your needs, they'll only send her running for cover at your tone of
brutal selfishness.
Honesty is simply reporting what your needs are
without begging, pouting, outbursts, judgments, or demands.
AND LET'S NOT
FORGET... POSITIVE HONESTY!
And remember, being honest with your woman is
not just for the bad moments or for bad the behaviors, but also for REINFORCING
the good moments and good behaviors.
90% of your "honest moments" should
be for REWARDING her GOOD behaviors.
Whenever she does something
that makes you feel good, TELL HER! If you express your positive feelings
clearly and enthusiastically, you'll make her feel good, reinforcing the good
behavior and linking even more positive feelings to you.
For more on
incorporating the traits of the real romantic hero, check out my Seduction
Archetypes Program, now in instant-download MP3 format. Seduction Archetypes Program
And for more on exactly HOW to communicate your
sexual needs and general relationship needs to your woman, you'll want to get my
Blissnosis Masters Program. It gives you clear, step-by-step instructions
on how to communicate any sexual need or fantasy your have to your woman, and to
have you fulfill your dreams together.
Blissnosis Masters Program
Until next time,
Derek Vitalio
To learn more about the Science of
Seduction and other Secrets of Seduction, Visit:
Science of
Seduction
Posted: 3/31/2009
More articles can be found at ARCHIVED SEDUCTION ARTICLES
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